Hello, I’m so glad you’re here!  What you’ve come to or stumbled on is a lifestyle blog by me, Paula, a 50 something, not skinny girl who loves to laugh, sing, decorate and dress cute (and skinny).  Get your bladder leakage pads ready because I hope you’ll be inspired to laugh, through little snippets from my wacky mind and average life. I’d love for you to stick around and join me on my journey to laugh at every roll and wrinkle, decorate  the mess of reality, dress to flatter every dimple and finally sing for joy that we are okay with being okay with how and who we are right now.


Fall fashion / between season outfit / 1 summer dress - 2 fall looks

How to Transition a Summer Dress into Fall

It’s the first Tuesday of the month and that means it’s time for another party…

COTTON Anti-chaffing Underwear

The Underwear Chronicles – Part II My passionate talk about cotton underwear continues with a…

Body Positive/ Plus sized clothes

Getting Real in a Graphic Tee

  Time for another month with the AGELESS STYLE LINKUP. This month each of my…

Curvy fashion / plus sized fashion / fashion over 50

50, Fat & Free to Wear Shorts

+ Ageless Style Link Up Summer and shorts just seem to go together.  And with…

Cotton Stretch Underwear for Curvy Women / Plus Size Cotton Underwear / Everyday Cotton Underwear for Curvy Women

Cotton Underwear for Curves

The Underwear Chronicles / Cotton Stretch Underwear for the Curvy Among Us Comfortable, everyday cotton…

Off shoulder dress / To the woman who won't buy bigger clothes until she lose weight / body confidence

Body Confidence in Bigger Pants

  To the woman refusing to buy clothes until she loses weight + ageless style…