Hello, I’m so glad you’re here!  What you’ve come to or stumbled on is a lifestyle blog by me, Paula, a 50 something, not skinny girl who loves to laugh, sing, decorate and dress cute (and skinny).  Get your bladder leakage pads ready because I hope you’ll be inspired to laugh, through little snippets from my wacky mind and average life. I’d love for you to stick around and join me on my journey to laugh at every roll and wrinkle, decorate  the mess of reality, dress to flatter every dimple and finally sing for joy that we are okay with being okay with how and who we are right now.


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My Mom, Breast Cancer Warrior

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Keep your marriage happy with these fundamentals. dimplesonmywaht.com

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Yummy cheesy chicken chili is only 4 ingredients and 20 minutes from your table.

easy cheesy chicken chili

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Gray roots between hair color can be a thing of the past if you know what products to use.

Best Temporary Root Concealer

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Follow the remodel of this 1950's cottage home at dimplesonmywhat.com

the cedar palace – tale of a remodel

I NEVER thought we’d ever remodel a home. We have bought or built many homes…