Hello, I’m so glad you’re here!  What you’ve come to or stumbled on is a lifestyle blog by me, Paula, a 50 something, not skinny girl who loves to laugh, sing, decorate and dress cute (and skinny).  Get your bladder leakage pads ready because I hope you’ll be inspired to laugh, through little snippets from my wacky mind and average life. I’d love for you to stick around and join me on my journey to laugh at every roll and wrinkle, decorate  the mess of reality, dress to flatter every dimple and finally sing for joy that we are okay with being okay with how and who we are right now.


time management | JORD Wood Watches | JORD

5 Ways to Manage Your Time and De-stress

+ JORD Wood Watches Giveaway Full confession  I have been a hot, anxious mess lately.…

cozy chic style | plus size fashion

Camo Joggers and Dreamy Slides

A Cozy Chic Weekend Look Camo. Joggers. Comfortable. This Weekend Style outfit checks off all…

Ageless Style / Fashion Over 50 / Kimono AND Dress / Curvy Style

Multi-tasking Wardrobe Pieces

It’s a Dress! It’s a Kimono! It’s Both! It’s the first Tuesday of the month…

Make Me Famous Fried Meatloaf Sandwiches / Leftover Meatloaf Ideas

Make You Famous Fried Barbeque Meatloaf Sandwiches

I have invented a sandwich. Ta-Da! Specifically a delicious take on a fried meatloaf sandwich.…

A lesson in self acceptance learned from blowing bubbles with the kids / Self Acceptance / Be Unique

Self-Acceptance in Bubbles / Lessons from Littles

Go figure! A lesson in self-acceptance came in the form of watching how my grandson’s…

Fall fashion / between season outfit / 1 summer dress - 2 fall looks

How to Transition a Summer Dress into Fall

It’s the first Tuesday of the month and that means it’s time for another party…