Hello, I’m so glad you’re here!  What you’ve come to or stumbled on is a lifestyle blog by me, Paula, a 50 something, not skinny girl who loves to laugh, sing, decorate and dress cute (and skinny).  Get your bladder leakage pads ready because I hope you’ll be inspired to laugh, through little snippets from my wacky mind and average life. I’d love for you to stick around and join me on my journey to laugh at every roll and wrinkle, decorate  the mess of reality, dress to flatter every dimple and finally sing for joy that we are okay with being okay with how and who we are right now.


Curvy fashion / plus sized fashion / fashion over 50

50, Fat & Free to Wear Shorts

+ Ageless Style Link Up Summer and shorts just seem to go together.  And with…

Cotton Stretch Underwear for Curvy Women / Plus Size Cotton Underwear / Everyday Cotton Underwear for Curvy Women

Cotton Underwear for Curves

The Underwear Chronicles / Cotton Stretch Underwear for the Curvy Among Us Comfortable, everyday cotton…

Off shoulder dress / To the woman who won't buy bigger clothes until she lose weight / body confidence

Body Confidence in Bigger Pants

  To the woman refusing to buy clothes until she loses weight + ageless style…

Kimono / Summer Style / Over 50 Fashion

kimono style

Kimono-ver and See My Summer Uniform + Ageless Style Link Up This month’s Ageless Style…

Lane Bryant Fashion / Curvy Fashion / Plus Sized Fashion / Over 50 Fashion

Easter Dresses & The Slobbing of America

Here Comes Peter Cottontail Easter is just around the corner. Easter brings to mind dying…

Makeup for Rosacea / Rosacea

how I cover rosacea without looking made-up

I have rosacea Erythematotelangiectatic rosacea to be specific. I can’t pronounce it but I know…