Hello, I’m so glad you’re here!  What you’ve come to or stumbled on is a lifestyle blog by me, Paula, a 50 something, not skinny girl who loves to laugh, sing, decorate and dress cute (and skinny).  Get your bladder leakage pads ready because I hope you’ll be inspired to laugh, through little snippets from my wacky mind and average life. I’d love for you to stick around and join me on my journey to laugh at every roll and wrinkle, decorate  the mess of reality, dress to flatter every dimple and finally sing for joy that we are okay with being okay with how and who we are right now.


Kicking Blogging Rules to the Curb | Find Your Own Blogging Voice | Gingham Wrap Skirt

Just a Curvy Hipster Biker Chick in a Prairie Skirt

Kickin’ A Blogging Rule to the Curb Or am I? Hello 2018!  I’m calling this…

mom jeans reinvented | my favorite mom jeans | fashion for women over 50

Mom Jeans Reinvented

What’s Old is New Again “Mom Jeans”. Nobody with any fashion sense at all wants…

Casual Holiday Style | Fashion For Women Over 50 | Plus Size Fashion

Casual Holiday Style

+ The Final Ageless Style Linkup of 2017 It’s absolutely crazy that we are already…

Chunky Sweater on a Curvy Girl | Break a few style rules

A Curvy Girls Guide for Wearing Chunky Sweaters

5 Simple Rules for Wearing a Chunky Sweater (without looking like Sasquatch) The big, chunky…

Turkey Chow Mein

Turkey Leftovers are Looking a Bit Different This Year Growing up, one of my favorite…

Growing out Gray Hair | Transitioning to Gray Hair | Thoughts on Going Gray

Gray or Nay?

Personal Thoughts  About Transitioning to Gray Hair I’m having a love affair with gray hair…