Hello, I’m so glad you’re here!  What you’ve come to or stumbled on is a lifestyle blog by me, Paula, a 50 something, not skinny girl who loves to laugh, sing, decorate and dress cute (and skinny).  Get your bladder leakage pads ready because I hope you’ll be inspired to laugh, through little snippets from my wacky mind and average life. I’d love for you to stick around and join me on my journey to laugh at every roll and wrinkle, decorate  the mess of reality, dress to flatter every dimple and finally sing for joy that we are okay with being okay with how and who we are right now.


Chunky Sweater on a Curvy Girl | Break a few style rules

A Curvy Girls Guide for Wearing Chunky Sweaters

5 Simple Rules for Wearing a Chunky Sweater (without looking like Sasquatch) The big, chunky…

Turkey Chow Mein

Turkey Leftovers are Looking a Bit Different This Year Growing up, one of my favorite…

Growing out Gray Hair | Transitioning to Gray Hair | Thoughts on Going Gray

Gray or Nay?

Personal Thoughts  About Transitioning to Gray Hair I’m having a love affair with gray hair…

Fall Fashion for Women Over 50 | Plus Sized Fashion

Non-wool Sweaters and Rich Fall Booties

Fall Feels Without the Itch + Ageless Style Link Up It seems this is the…

Wide Calf Over the Knee Boots

Wide Calf Over the Knee Boots

    If you’re a curvy woman or a woman with muscular calves, whether from…

Millenial Fashion | Ageless Fashion | Hats for fall

Let’s Get Together – Bridging the Gap

♫ ♪ Let’s get together, yeah, yeah, yeah. We could have a real good ti-ime!…