Makeup Mistakes (and Other Weird Things) that Age You – Part Two
Today we’re continuing our Weird Things that Make You Look Old series, and I’m talking about the Makeup Mistakes that Age You. Can you believe I actually got to a second in a series? NEW YEAR GOALS, bump it!
PART ONE – ACCESSORY MISTAKES THAT AGE YOU
As we get older, we can’t always get away with the makeup trends that work on a younger woman. While I don’t think we have to give up all makeup trends, there are a few no-no’s we need to remember if we want our makeup routine to bring out the youthful soul living beneath our “experienced” skin. Can you guess what some of these makeup mistakes are?
I never thought I could be a model but…
I’m the “spokes-model” today to save anyone else from finding their photo highlighting their makeup mistakes posted on the internet in a “don’t” photo. Mama didn’t raise no dummy. But she did raise someone who loves a good laugh and is willing to “dress the part” to make a point. *No animals or humans were injured in the making of this post; only my pride! 😉
NOTE – These photos have been taken at close range and not in the most flattering light, though I did not apply unnecessary harsh light either. I have not edited these photos nor applied filters to them. I have indicated the light source used in the caption below each photograph. Any differences in color are dependent on the amount of natural light coming through the window as one day it was sunnier than another.
Aging is Natural, and It’s Beautiful
But sometimes we need a little help!
I won’t get on my positive-aging soapbox today, but let me just say, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with aging naturally. You know, sans major surgery, injectibles, and fillers. It truly is what’s inside that counts the most. But wearing a bit of makeup to enhance our best features is a great way to look and feel our best about our maturing faces. However, we can also enhance the “features” we’d rather keep on the D.L.
Not Wearing Makeup isn’t the Most Youthful Option – for some of us…
For me, not wearing any makeup at all can be ugly because of my skin issues, which I address further into the post. But not wearing makeup isn’t always youthful even if you have great skin. A little blush, lip-tint, and mascara might be all you need to brighten up your face a give you a glow similar to what you once had.
Your Style is Unique to YOU
I’ve decided to add this disclaimer at the beginning of this post instead of at the end, as I usually do in this type of personal opinion post. I did not create these parody photos to make fun of anyone.
Style is unique to the individual and each woman should wear what makes her feel beautiful and that includes makeup. The cosmetic recommendations I’m making today are opinions based on my observations and study (a.k.a. people-watching) of what, cosmetically, might make one woman look older than another of the same age.
Makeup Mistakes that Adds Years to Our Faces
Foundation
A foundation that’s too heavy or the wrong color can instantly age us. I struggle with this one because I need adequate coverage for my rosacea. However, I have to be careful because a full coverage foundation can sink into my pores, crevices, and the flakey areas caused by seborrheic dermatitis. Yeah, I got lucky in the skin issue department. ;-(
Choose a formula that’s hydrating and with the correct undertones for your skin. Also, go as light coverage as you can get away with. If you don’t have skin discolorations to cover, you might like a tinted moisturizer. A trip to a beauty counter or makeup artist can be invaluable for finding the right makeup. But don’t be afraid to say you don’t like it and check to see if the store has generous return policies.
ESSENTIAL FOUNDATION PRODUCTS
I’ve had LOTS of questions about what foundation I’m wearing in the AFTER photo. So here ya go:
It Cosmetics CC Cream in Light (However, I have since switched to the It Cosmetics Bye-Bye Foundation Full Coverage Tinted Moisturizer because while it doesn’t have as many anti-aging ingredients, it’s not as heavy.)
Hourglass Mineral Veil – If you need a primer this one is EXCELLENT. It is a bit pricey so my next recommendation is Porefessional by Benefit.
Sonja Kashuk Makeup Brushes are high-quality brushes for less money. I can’t find my exact (favorite) one anymore but this one is pretty close and with almost 400 5-star reviews and at only $10, it’s a MUST-HAVE!
Drmtlgy Tinted Moisturizer SPF 45 is a new-to-me medical grade tinted moisturizer that I really do love and it’s at a fabulous price point. I love a multitasking product because less is more. Remember?
Another valuable resource for getting makeup reviews from brow pencils to a foundation, including which specific colors of a foundation to avoid because of too much pink or orange undertone (because nothing says “makeup mistake” like that tell-tale orange makeup line on your jaw), is BeautyPedia. Not only will you find a product rating from the experts, but you can read customer reviews as well.
Highlight and Contour
Okay, I don’t know anyone who is this heavy-handed with highlight and contour, but overdoing either is an instant-ager. A perfect real -life example is an actress and advocate, who I love, Leah Remini. She (or more likely her makeup artist) often overdoes contouring, and it looks harsh.
Highlight
Glitter is a no-no on mature skin. But even if we’re talking about a shimmery highlight, too much of a good thing is not a good thing. Depending on the texture of your skin, shimmer can settle in and exacerbate crepey skin texture, fine lines, and wrinkles.
Consider a highlight with very little to no shimmer or add a bit of highlight on your high points but under your foundation. You will find some of the combination highlight and contour kits I recommend in the “Contour” section below.
Contour
As far a choosing a shade of contour, stay away from orangey tones. Contour is mimicking a natural shadow on your skin; it’s not a bronzer.
Powder – Smashbox makes an excellent powder highlight and contour kit with a universal ashy-brown contour color. I have two go-to choices for creamy highlight and contour.
Cream – NYX’s contour face stick is convenient and affordable.
A Highlight and Contouring Makeup System
Another fabulous option is Maskcara’s HAC Makeup. They offer so many great color options for contour and highlight that IS actually the foundation. You have to see it to believe it. Check out my post for a full Maskcara HAC Makeup review and video.
You can also get connected with your own Maskcara Makeup Artist who will help color match you. If you don’t already have one, check out my friend Shannon Mason and she will hook you up! She is ready and waiting to answer your questions through her Instagram or you can look around on her website.
Bronzer
As I mentioned above, bronzer is not contour. Even so, stay away from orangy shades. Two that I like are The Balm’s Bahama Mama and Laguna by NARS.
Cheeks
I love blush. It’s probably the one makeup product that will add youth to your face as long as you choose the right colors for your skin tone and blend, blend, blend it in. We’ve all seen those old ladies with the little clown dollops of blush on their cheeks.
Cream blush works wonders on mature skin! But that doesn’t mean you can’t use a powder if you have the skin texture for it and choose formulas that don’t settle into lines.
I’ve linked several of my current favorites below.
Favorite Blushes
IT Cosmetics, Bye Bye Pore Blush in Naturally Pretty
Thrive Causemetics Triple Threat Stick in Dionne (Doubles as a lip tint too!)
Flower Beauty Lip and Cheek Gel Crush (I have the strawberry crush and it’s so pretty)
Laura Geller Baked Blush & Brighten (Marbleized Powder) in Tropic Hues
Eyes
Eeks! Where do I begin? Again, this is an area in that we can take a few risks but BE CAREFUL because it’s so easy to make a slew of makeup mistakes with eye makeup.
If you haven’t already noticed an advice theme running throughout this post, it’s MODERATION. Anything harsh or overdone will make us look older, especially around our eyes.
Eyeshadow
Having hooded eyes that are now pretty saggy, I’m still trying to figure out the best eyeshadow for me, and I’m considering booking an appointment with a makeup artist to help me out. Most days I don’t wear any eyeshadow because it not only closes in my already small eyes even more, but eyeshadow gravitates downward throughout the day.
But having seen women with an ample eyelid area wearing too much and too dark an eyeshadow, the principle of too-much still applies. You can still add color, but softer colors in medium to light tones are a bit more youthful to an older face.
Eyeliner
Let’s just make sure this is the first thing: stark eyeliner on the bottom lash line is no bueno! If we have that down the rest is easy.
Black is an excellent choice for eyeliner for a more dramatic eye or photos, but for every day, you might choose a softer tone, like brown or slate. Keep the eyeliner on the upper lid either in the lash line or barely above and “smudge” it out.
I have a little trick where I use a smudging brush or sponge-tip to smudge out the top liner, but then I smudge the leftover on the sponge onto the bottom lash line. That way, there’s no harsh line below the eye, but I’ve created a little definition. I like to say, “I put my eyes on.”
Eyebrows
The same mature beauty makeup principle applies to eyebrows; keep it soft. My advice is to choose a pencil that is only one (or two at the max) shades darker than your natural brow color. I also prefer an eyebrow pencil that is not too thin because my eyesight isn’t excellent and I can’t be super precise. Follow your brow shape and don’t go too big.
I did a video review of the Brow Trio here that I like to call, Eyebrows for Dummies.
Favorites for Eyes
NOTE: I am not a huge fan of eyebrow micro-blading for me. One, it’s permanent makeup, and trends come and go. All those ladies walking around with harsh black eyeliner on their lower lids – TESTIFY! Two, for some reason, it’s not recommended for people with rosacea. And three, after having my breast implants removed, I am incredibly cautious doing anything that injects things into my skin as we don’t know what it does to us. However, we want to accentuate our thinning brows.
Lips
Okay, lipstick will probably be the one I get the most pushback on. Any lipstick that is “too” can age mature lips. Too bright, too frosted, too matte, and too shiny. But in my opinion (as is this entire post), lipstick that is too dark is the number on lipstick mistake we can make. It’s quite possibly the number one makeup mistake we make that can make us look older.
As we age, not only are our lips thinning, and we get lines around our mouth and on our lips, but our teeth can look dingier, and our face might be sagging at different rates.
Take my face, for instance. I still have reasonably decent lips, but my face sags more on the right side, and that includes the down-turn of my mouth. My lips are also asymmetrical, and I’m only highlighting the imperfections by wearing a dark lip color. And believe me, I didn’t haphazardly apply this lipstick, this is the state of my lips. The imperfections are only exaggerated by the dark shade of the lipstick.
But the lips are also a great place to play with color if we keep a few things in mind:
- Don’t try to overline your lips too much. If you’ve lost lip volume, I think it’s best to give them oomph by choosing better colors (remember, dark recedes, and light brings forward) and drawing only slightly outside the lip line. There are plenty of helpful YouTube video tutorials.
- If we want to wear a darker color, consider a sheer color wash. I like Almost Lipstick by Clinique. The Black Honey is a universally flattering berry shade.
- Red lipstick isn’t a great choice for me. But if I were going to wear red lipstick, I keep it in a flattering tone, and I still like it to be less matte and a little sheerer. Revlon Lip Butter in Cherry Tart is my all-time favorite red lip color, but of course, it’s been discontinued so I’ll have to update this post once I find a replacement.
- Choose flattering lip colors that mimick your natural lip color but better. For a little more pop, what do your lips look like after they have had a good kiss? That’s the color you want to find! As we get older, our lips also lose color, and we do want to add a little bit of “just kissed” youthfulness to our faces.
Favorites for Lips
Agree? Disagree? Anything to Add?
Aahhhh, I feel MUCH better. My lips are still uneven but the imperfections aren’t as pronounced with a lighter lipstick.
And my eyes are just as hooded and small as before yet they don’t look as heavy and closed in. I think the wrinkles around my eyes are also less pronounced too. I like to think of anything too dark like a dark picture frame making the photo inside take center stage.
And maybe my face doesn’t look as “chiseled” without gobs of contour but a full face looks less wrinkled. I like to say, “who needs Botox, eat another donut!“
My lips are still uneven yet it is not as pronounced as it was with dark lips.
What’s your opinion on makeup for mature women? Are there makeup mistakes you’ve seen that definitely add years to an already maturing face? Let me know in the comments below.
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I think good brows, in a complimentary, ashy shade take years off. The problem with aging is that our hair and skin all lose pigment, so we almost become invisible, literally and metaphorically. Good make up can put the contrast back if it is done well. A soft brown, matte shadow in the crease to help hooded lids, a grey (not black) shadow smudged into the upper lash line only, to add definition and a good mascara will stop your eyes from disappearing. A flattering, dewy foundation but not so heavy it is a mask will even skin tone, a creamy neutral toned lipstick, lips lined to again add definition and a swoosh of blush to add a glow and suddenly 50+ looks fresh and vibrant.
I’m a 54 year qualified make up artist and our age group is either still doing what we did at 20, or what 20 year olds today are doing and neither flatters us@
Your hair is gorgeous btw. I’m on my own journey to having my hair entirely my natural colour and I cant wait for mine to be like yours.
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Well hello Debbie! Do you wanna just come over every morning and put my face on the me? 😉
Here’s a question for you now that you’ve seen my skin before, after and up close with makeup on,; considering I also have dry patches on each side of my face suspected to be my seborrheic dermatitis per my derm, do you have any good foundation recommendations? High end or low end, I’m not picky.
Xx
Paula
I’d love to, but it would be a lengthy commute from West Yorkshire!
I think I might have found my mature skin Holy grail foundation, on the basis that my must haves are:
Sufficient coverage to even skin tone & hide redness and age spots
Must NOT sit in pores or fine lines/wrinkles/huge crevasses
MUST dry down so it’s not slip sliding all over my face all
But must also be dewy and glowy, without looking greasy or sweaty (I have the menopause for that!)
It needs to last all day at work I’m busy foundation, you need to keep up!
And this miracle maquillage? Clarins Everlasting Youth Fluid. Awful name, amazing foundation. I gave my mum some for her 75th birthday and she’s fallen back in love with doing her make up. I hope you get chance to try it, applied with a damp beauty blender it is just beautiful!
Author
I’m going to give it a try! Thanks.
xx
Paula
Thank you both! I have exactly the same needs and struggles, so I’ll also try this. Clarins is a great brand, and has a lovely cellulite cream (it won’t get rid of mine, but it smells wonderful and is worth a shot). Also, it’s crazy difficult to find eye shadow without shimmer. Hmmph!
Author
The Balm used to have a compact called Meet Matte that was all matte colors. And I know Max carries individual color pots with some matte colors. And ITCosmetics carries a compact called Naturally Pretty that’s has only one shimmer as a color “transformer” of sorts. https://rstyle.me/cz-n/fah7i8cdmi7
Hope that helps.
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The Balm used to have a compact called Meet Matte that was all matte colors. And I know Max carries individual color pots with some matte colors. And ITCosmetics carries a compact called Naturally Pretty that’s has only one shimmer as a color “transformer” of sorts.
I agree! So frustrating!
Hi Paula, I have been using Cicapair derma green solution in Tiger grass by Dr. Jart. It goes on a greenish (to correct redness) white and when it settles makes your skin look like a porcelain doll. Somehow it “magically” blends in with your skin tone. Love it!
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I have some of that. I’ll have to look to see if I kept it or got rid of it.
I have this, I use the serum first, then this for a beautiful Dewey finish! Covers all of my red and imperfection.. now to find the right concealer… I swear I’ve wasted hundreds of $$$ trying to find the best!
Author
I have too, Stephani – so much money! I recently found this serum that makes everything dewy and gives my makeup more slip. You can use it under or over makeup, and I’ve even mixed it with my foundation for a lighter look.
Have a fantastic day!
Paula
SO good. I definitely think a heavy hand is a big no no. I go pretty minimal now a days, but never really wore heavy makeup.
Author
I agree. As we older we just don’t have as much leeway to get crazy!
Look forward to hearing what you think. One thing I would say is that it oxidizes so get some put on your face to colour match and then go for a coffee, do some more shopping and then check the colour again. I bought Organza and I think Nude would be better and I’ll try that next time. It’s a small niggle, but a niggle nonetheless! Xx
I agree with everything! Except– I do wear darker lip stick now because I feel washed out with my silver hair and blue eyes.
Author
I agree we can look washed out as our hair, face, and lips loose pigment. I think we should go “darker” or perhaps we should say, a bit more pigmented to add a bit pep back into our face without going too dark. 😬
xx
Paula
Love love love the natural look-I wonder if just changing the lipstick would’ve helped. But the natural look is classic finesse-Travel Tips by Laurie
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Thanks Laurie! The assume you mean change the lip on the after? If so, this is definitely my everyday-look and the “before” is my never-look. Perfection (or date night) lays somewhere in between. 😉
xx
Paula
Except for the blush, I love your look in the before photo….
These seem more like different looks for different experiences. One could be for evening and the other for daytime.
Either way, I love your blog!
In my opinion, dark lipstick looks really awful on older women. I am 70 and I never wear dark lipstick like the dark red I do wear a natural reddish brown which almost matches the color of my lips. It looks like color, but not jarring.
Author
We’re definitely thinking along the same lines Linda!
Hugs,
Paula
Thank you so much for writing this article, because it is way too easy to remain the same (blue eye shadow still calls my name) when styles change and we are evolving. The one thing that I have started is to blend two foundation colors to get the color that is right for me.
Author
That’s a great idea Joanne! I filmed an everyday makeup tutorial but I could tell my foundation was not quite right when seeing it under a spotlight. But the next color down would probably be too light so a blend might be perfect.
xx
Paula
Hi from sunny South Africa, Paula!
I have been following and enjoying your blog for quite some time and I just want to say that I love your beautiful natural look. Your grey hair is so lovely and it was definitely the right decision to go for your natural grey colour. I have also stopped colouring my hair about 3 years ago and I’m so glad I did! I’m 53 and do not have a lot of grey hair, yet, but I do have to few ones around my face. Nothing more beautiful that natural grey hair, hey! I agree with everything you said about the make-up for our 50 Plussers, definitely go for a natural look and stay away from bright and dark lipsticks! I couldn’t wait to get to your after photo and I love your look!
Have a great day!
Kind regards
LOVE your blog!
You are a beautiful woman and think the natural look is so stunning on you.
I too have had rosacea and Photofacial laser treatments helped immensely. Wonder if you’ve ever asked your Derm about this procedure…
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Thank you Sherry! Yes, my dear wants to do the laser treatment but I have dragged my feet because she mentioned my face might be purple afterward. So when I can home and googled the particular laser she mentioned the “purple” was more like “being beat with a baseball bat purple”. 🤭 However, it has gotten bad enough I need to just bite the bullet and do it. I have reached out to a friend who has a medical spa and she has some sort of vascular Kaser with Excel V+ which closes off the blood vessels. I’ll have to google that then make a decision. I’m glad to know if someone who had good results.
xx,
Paula
For the longest time after I retired I wore nothing on my eyes but mascara. Lately I have been adding eyeliner so I like your thought of going lighter than black. I also like the idea of smudging under the eye. My lip line is terrible and I feel like I need my bottom lip plumped it kind of disappeared. Lol. Great post with lots of great info.
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Thanks Victoria. I have a couple of “lip tricks” to help create the illusion of a slightly fuller lip. Thanks for another post idea. In the meantime, City Beauty has a plumping gloss that gives a bit oomph to the lips. I think it’s called City Lips.
xx
Paula
What color lipstick is in the after photo? Looks like a great everyday one!
Girl this is a GREAT post. You’ve put so much time in to a subject that we all struggle with from time to time! Thanks for the tips! I think the whole foundation part can be the hardest to get right! The one I use is from CHANEL and the perfect coverage but is so light and silky on your skin! YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL!!! XOXO
Hello Paula!
I just discovered you on Pinterest! We have the same redness in the the same places on our faces, hooded eyelids and same issue with uneven lips. I don’t know when this thread post was created but wish I had discovered you sooner! I am going to be 51 in May and I really enjoyed reading this! Looking forward to reading your past articles, especially the one with your laser procedure that was shown on bottom of this post. I had this done as well. Thank you for this site Paula! I did sign up to follow you. Finally, someone who gets me!
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Hi Jill! So happy to have you here. I always say that I think God created me with all my little “inconsistencies” and my skin issues and red face so everyone wouldn’t have to be jealous of my beauty. 😉🤣😂🤣 I reckon it just gives us character. 😘
Be blessed Gorgeous!
Paula
Love the after picture of you and your honesty. You are beautiful inside and out.
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Thank you Deb. I know some women really love their dark or strong lipstick or eye makeup. But I just can’t pull it off and feel good about it. Even if we did as younger women, I think as we get older, we just can’t getaway with it without adding years.
Hugs,
Paula
I agree that heavy makeup makes you look older. It also looks dated on an older woman.
Author
Yes. Older women can’t get away with some the things you get women can. 🥸
Great article, your before and after photos show exactly what your article is saying. In the after photo you look radiant, a woman who is confident with her age. The before picture looks like a woman who is trying sooooo hard to look younger and the only thing she is doing is to draw attention to her clown like makeup. Sorry. Thanks, so wish I could have all women read this and realize how much better they could look, that goes for the women who wears no makeup and her granny hairstyle. You know “ the church lady”.😉
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You totally GET IT Donna! So many women’s even those who look nice, look like they’re trying too hard.
Hugs,
Paula
Think darker lipstick makes your lips look bigger . But both are nice .
Hi Paula,
Just came across your post in Pinterest. I’ve been going through the same issues this past year. Your make starts looking off and it’s a challenge to figure out why….besides turning 56😂
I think I found my favorite foundation ( for right now) and wanted to share; it’s Chanel Les Beiges Water Tint. It has minimal coverage but blurs imperfections. Feels wonderfully cool going on and I find it last as long as heavier foundations.
Thanks for the great article and your after photo is beautiful.
Author
Ooo, thanks Lesley! I’m so happy to find products based on recommendations from real people instead of sales clerks.
Thanks,
Paula
Wow. You look years younger with the lighter touch. And keep that smile, can’t tell your lips are uneven.
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Thanks so much Connie! I like to say that my smile is the “money shot”. 😂 Which is why I’m so ticked off that you can’t show your teeth anymore in you drivers license photo. 😠
Hugs,
Paula
Too much of an arch on eyebrows. I try to get mine as straight as possible.
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Eyebrows are tricky! I don’t have much of my own left and I’m not skilled or patient enough to get them precise. I’ve thought about micro blading but permanent makeup scares me because EVERY TREND comes and goes. Full eyebrows are in for a while, then thin. But, we do the best we can and then say, life is too short to let this face be my focus. 😄
Hugs & happy days Carole!
Paula
Paula, I just found you and I’m enjoying all the tips. As to micro blading … Do you know why some women are getting it done with a straight vertical line at the beginning of their brows? Is this a trend and is it supposed to be copied with my pencil? It strikes me as very artificial and he
Rash. Your thoughts?
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I don’t really know Dixie. While I’d love to have good eyebrows everyday since I’m loosing more of mine daily, I don’t trust that it would be done right. Perhaps though, a person could have the technician, draw eyebrows before hand until they got the shape you were pleased with. I agree, the harsh brow line can look very unnatural.
Best,
Paula
I agree with all of your tips and I would add- try a brow mascara instead of a pencil, especially if your sight isn’t great. I’ve found it looks much more natural and for everyday- is quick and easy to apply. I’m adding you to my regular rotation of blogs to follow, love your attitude and your voice💕
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Thanks so much Michelle! I’m glad to have you here. 👋 What brand of brow mascara do you use? I’ve been looking and i think I’ve tried the Gimme Brow and the Boy Brow by Glossier, but I found both to not give a lot oomph )maybe I had the wrong color) and I don’t think they lasted long… meaning ran out quickly.
Hugs,
Paula
I’m just gonna say it… that picture on the left looked to me like you more of an alternative badass. I was feeling roller derby vibes. You look beautiful and youthful in both, just different styles. 💗
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😂🤣😂 Roller derby!
I reckon each of us has our own comfort level, even with makeup; including roller derby queens . 😉
Hugs,
Paula
What lip color are you wearing in the “after” photo? Very pretty!
Great advice on all counts! 🍩
A product I love by MARY Kay is the eye primer in a grey tube. I see It tighten my puff lid and living in Phoenix Az. It keeps my eye shadow in place. I apply two light coats ( tiny amt.) and dust it with translucent powder, before eyeshadow. Been using at least 15 years, and it Never fails me- till I wash It off!
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This is GREAT to know Cecelia! With my hooded, saggy lids, I can use all the help I can get with eye products staying put.
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I agree with you. I definitely like the softer version of you. Great article
You rocked it woman – definately look more youthful and healthy as the new you!
I have seborrheic dermatitis also. May I ask what you use to control it?
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Hi Kimberly! I don’t currently use a daily prescription on my face, but when I notice flare-ups, I use Elidel. And occasionally Ketoconazole RX shampoo on my scalp. I haven’t had as many scalp flares since stopping the hair dye and I do t use products with heavy fragrances.
Also, I have found a great peel that has helped with the dry, sandpaper texture on the sides of my face which I’m attributing to the SD and possibly years if steroid use to control it. It’s the Lactic Acid Peel by Stacked Skincare. I started using it when they sent it to me for a collaboration and have kept using it because I LOVE IT!
https://rstyle.me/cz-n/fff4qzcdmi7 (affiliate link)
It stings a little going on but has not exacerbated anything. And FINALLY my skin feels smooth!
Good Luck
Paula
That’s so good to know! Thank you so much!
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You’re very welcome.
Hugs,
Paula
I love your “new “ look! It is much more youthful and slimming ❣️
I am 74 and have been using most of these tips for years. I have dark hair and medium hazel eyes. Extreme eye makeup always looked garish and ridiculous with my light to medium skin tones. Thanks for the update and validation!
I just love the fresh glowing after results. I would love to know exactly what products you used if possible. I have mature skin and hooded saggy eyelids and it’s always such a struggle to put makeup on and I feel stuck! Thank you so much I’m looking forward to a new fresh faced look.
WInona
Yes you look lovely ,lighter olours on the lips 👄 do look better on nearly every one as we age, especially over 50, I am over 80…(just)…..and I have been blessed with good genes…I love colour,and wear it in my clothes… light and dark always look stunning.
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I agree! I think that’s what some people miss as we age… brightening up the face doesn’t have to mean too much color and clothes are the perfect way to add the ZING we need!
Thanks for stopping by.
Paula
This is the first time I have seen your site and enjoyed it. Found it very helpful. Especially appreciated specific product recommendations. Looking forward to future postings.
I worked with makeup my whole career. I am a master esthetician. However, most of my career was practiced during the 60’s through the 90’s. All heavier/stronger prominate makeup years! Now in my 70s, my skin is just starting to wrinkle and my strong very dark hair/fair complexion is no more. My makeup needs are completely different than ever before.
I love the difference. You can learn to apply eye shadow to mask hooded eyelids and be sure to use cream matte shadow to complete your look.
This was very enlightening! Sometimes I think I try to use the products my 40 year old daughter uses thinking it will help me and I’m in my 60’s.
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I think we can probably use some of the same products, but our “touch” needs to be a lighter. 😘
Hugs,
Paula
But what about the “smoky” eye ? What if you want to achieve this look ? I saw once if you line your top lid and make the line go up, it gives the eye a lift. If you did use the beige, brown and dark brown or black shadows but blend them well, wouldn’t you still look “okay” with the lighter shade being more prevalent ?
And if you put a darker shade of lipstick inlay they sides of your mouth for “effect” like shadow and lighter shade in middle with a bit of gloss on top in the middle, wouldn’t it make your lips look plump ?
I’ve seen some women do this, and older ones too in a tutorial but they were like 30-40, maybe 50.
I’m wondering though because I like the darker colors but I’ve been leaning towards a dusty mauve lately and yes mattes are my go to.
I like your look though.
This HAS given me something to think about.
Thank you in advance.
Jeanette
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Hi Jeanette!
I definitely think you can amp up your makeup look for special occasions or even regularly if that’s your thing. I would definitely stick to highlighting one area at a time though – if you do a smoky eye, downplay your lips and vice versa.
You just want to avoid anything too harsh looking so a smoky eye may be a better way to accentuate the eyes because it’s a softer than stark liner.
I’ve never been great at eyeshadow but I’m working on a couple of looks that are doable. And I have some secrets that I’ll share for getting a fuller looking lip. Stay tuned. 😉
Hugs,
Paula
I am now 43 years old and struggle with my making my makeup look as good as it did in my 20’s! I also have rosacea and can not find a foundation that seems to cover without being to heavy. Is there anyway a could get a list of the foundations and face products you use? I seen it up top but when I click on them they do not pull up! I love your look!
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Thanks for letting me know that the links aren’t working Jessica. I’ll make some time to fix that and create a list of what I used here.
Also, I have an upcoming post creating an everyday makeup look using all drugstore makeup and it includes a new foundation that I really like.
But in the meantime, I used itCosmetics CC Cream for this post. However, last year I switched to their ByeBye Foundation Full Coverage Moisturizer because it doesn’t seem to be as heavy.
Hugs,
Paula
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I actually agree with everything that you say , and I think you look gorgeous in the right hand photo.I am older than you and also have small eyes and hooded lids ,and very fair sparse eyebrows .I rarely wear “proper ” make up , but I always use a blonde pomade on my brows and a brown mascara, just so I look alive !totally agree with the lipstick comments , my once full lips are very thin now so I do use a lighter shade of lippy when I wear it , many thanks for your advice < I will follow you for tips .
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Hello Annie,
Thanks so much for stopping by. When all is said and done, we should wear what makes us feel good and that includes makeup. 😘
Hugs,
Paula
I am still having problems in picking different makeup now that my hair is white. I quit dying my hair a couple years and love my white hair and get alot of compliments on it but struggle now how to wear the correct eyeshadow with my bright blue eyes. I had always worn dsrk and smoky eyes but now it looks so harsh. I can’t tell you how many shadows I have. I should think about a makeup artist too but thoughts creep back of the day I got the glamor makeover when it was popular. Haha. What a waste of money.
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Oh my gosh, “Glamour Shots”… now it’s so embarrassing to look at those. 🤣 Maybe just try a subtle version of what you used to do… less. Or concentrate on one aspect of your eye makeup. If you have bright blue eyes, they’re the showstopper!
I love the after photo look. So refreshed and youthful. Do you have a list of all the make up products that were used to create the look? I always have problems with eye make up being to harsh. Thank you!
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Thanks so much. I did link some of the products I used here. But I have an upcoming post using all drugstore makeup, some of which I use every day, to create an everyday makeup look. So if you’re not subscribed you may want to sign up so you can see that one.
Hugs,
Paula
Informative and fun read. I’m not make-up savvy, so this was very helpful. Thank you very much.
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Thanks Kim. I’m still tweaking my routine too. Hoping that in the new year I’m gonna do a lot more makeup and skincare posts.
You are simply stunning… incredible …thank you ❤️ from Australia 🌏🦘
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Thank you Georgia.
Be aware that eyeglasses magnify the eye makeup you have on. What looks good through your corrected vision may appear larger than life as someone sees you behind the lenses.
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That’s a good point Teresa. I only use readers and don’t apply my makeup with them on.
Smiling helps all faces especially aged ones. Life can make you frown but the challenge is not letting your face give away your distress. Just a personal challenge of mine
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I agree Jo-Anna. We don’t realize it but our resting faces are usually not smiling, reflect what we’re thinking about. I smile a lot around people but I often have to make my relax my face and smile… especially when I driving alone.
My husbands resting face is severe looking. People ask him what he’s mad about and he replies, “This is just my face.” 🤣
Actually, you don’t look ugly without makeup. That look is fine during summer when it is too hot or when you’re at home. I hardly have any makeup on when I’m out. However, the minimal makeup look does makes me feel confident. I have never like to have a full face makeup unless for an occasion.
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Thank you Nita! I usually wear only sunscreen when I’m home (especially when it’s just a pool day) but my favorite foundation for summer also has SPF 50 so I’ll layer that on over my regular sunscreen for extra protection. And of course a hat never hurts either. 😁
This is one of the most helpful posts I have seen in awhile. Thank you! Off to grab a make up wipe!
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THANKS so much for saying that Janet. I love seeing the before & after it really drives the point home that a less really can be better when we get older.
Hugs,
Paula
You look gorgeous. Everything you described I’ve noticed in friends in the over 70 group. One lady still uses the 1980 lip liner of a different color. With dyed blonde hair. Come on, she is almost 90.
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Thank you Connie. I think no matter our age, getting stuck or being unwilling to change is what dates us the most.
Hugs,
Paula
U r so rite what we used to wear no longer works I almost get depressed when I put my face makeup on . What I used to wear no longer looks good and now I have to put primer on and sumtimes it looks better sumtimes not also do we need to do all the contour and highlights?im 67 I want to learn how to put the eyelid tape on . I guess I need to go and let someone at ultra help me out . I still feel better when my makeup is on and hair fixed so I will continue to wear it just not like I did when I was young .
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It’s tough isn’t it Paula. But there are so many great products out there. I keep the less is more philosophy and use sunscreen instead of primer these days. *SuperGoop has a good one that is very much like primer too.
I looked into the eyelid tape but most didn’t get good reviews so I decided to just let them droop and do the best I can. Let me know if you try them though. Always interested in a word-of-mouth opinion.
Hugs,
Paula
I love your new look, but I believe the 1st lipstick is too dark, and the 2nd could be a little darker.. you still look beautiful!
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Thanks Cheryl. I agree and I’m always looking for a happy medium when it comes to lip color.
Hugs,
Paula
What is the name of the lip color in your after pic?
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I’m sorry to say that I don’t remember Meg. 🤦🏼♀️ But it’s likely something similar to Charlotte Tilbury Pillow Talk or Rommel Kate Moss Lipstick (08) it’s a beautiful pinky nude and quite a bargain. I’ll provide affiliate links for both below:
Rimmel https://rstyle.me/cz-n/dj24kqcdmi7
Pillow Talk https://rstyle.me/cz-n/f97q73cdmi7
Enjoy!
Paula
Best tutorial I’ve seen, believed and have saved. Also signed up for more! Reality is sometimes hard to take in the ageing process but you made it palatable and fresh. Thank you!
Lynne
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Oh, THANK YOU so much Lynne! You’re right, aging can be hard to take especially on this day and age when so many are turning to injections and fillers to “age well”. I for one, hope to bring back the beauty of authenticity.
Hugs,
Paula
Love the updates!
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Thank you Jan.
I also Have dermatitis on my face and hairline. I’m in my 70″s. I use a mixture of baking soda and coconut oil as a mild scrub about 3 times a week as I have dry skin and moisturize with coconut oil and various moisturizers For my hair I add baking soda with shampoo and have been doing so for the last 7 years. It keeps the dermatitis at bay. have been rinsing with white vinegar. I am now just starting to experiment with aloe vera as a rinse. Cleaning my face with this method helps my makeup to apply much smoother
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That’s interesting Sherlene, I have heard of this exact “recipe”. I’ve used baking soda as a scrub and also as clarifying shampoo. But because I have rosacea also, I try not to use anything as abrasive anymore. But maybe with the oil…
Hugs,
Paula
I am 75 but have always looks 10 years younger.
The anxiety of…… and I mean extreme anxiety made me lose my hair in the back . I wish I could hide the stress marks and I have totally crappy white hair that I’m about to shave off but too scared to go out in public. I need help with makeup too. I was runner up for the university beauty contest and now I look like a witch.
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Aww Michelle, I’m sorry you’ve lost your hair. Stress can do a number on us. However, there’s beauty in each of us. A bit of makeup, fun earrings, and a little attitude can change your entire perspective. I also find that looking for style inspiration on Pinterest by searching similar attributes can help give you ideas. For instance, search for “White (or gray) hair pixies” and see what you find.
the person looks much better without that- dark e lipstick and too much makeoup
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I totally agree Sharon!
Your natural look is so pretty. I’ve had an eyelid lift & had my eyebrows micro bladed (virtually had NO eyebrows) over the past 10-15 yrs. I lost all my hair after cancer treatments & it came back gray & I’m happy with that. Always had hard, hard issues with foundation color but I think I’ve found a good one. It’s Culler & is not a heavy coverage to cover everything but I’m satisfied with it. Do you have any comments on this brand? I’m 74 so don’t do a lot of eye shadow or liner.
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Thank you Kay! I never thought i wanted to do microblading because, well, PERMANENT-ish makeup and trends change so fast. But recently, I’ve seen some done really well and then I look in the mirrors at my cosmetic attempts and think, “well…. Maybe?!?!” 😂 Did you have yours done before your cancer treatments?
Hugs,
Paula
Paula you look amazing in both photos, actually!
but having read through your tutorial, I ‘get’ what you’re saying about a lighter touch.
Your after photo, is softer, more of your natural beauty shines through and it’s a more pulled-together look-
very professional!
I’m gonna start on the ‘less is more’, tomorrow!
love and thanks!
Thank you so much for posting this! And I love the youthfulness of the 2nd picture, very fresh and natural! I am 64 and HATE trying to make decisions about make-up. I have rosacea as well and gray hair, green eyes. I want to accentuate, not cover up. Thank you for steering me correctly.
Thank you for this tutorial. I found it very helpful. I am going to a wedding tomorrow and I will use some of these suggestions.
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That’s great to know Annie! Have fun abs get ready for compliments.
Hugs,
Paula
You are really quite pretty! Thanks for the tutorial — at 75, I’ve almost stopped using cosmetics because they do tend to emphasize what’s unsightly. But you’ve given me a few ideas!
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I LOVE blush Polly. It’s definitely a face brightener. And I think give our faces a youthful glow and cream blushes are nice for mature skin.
Hugs,
Paula
Incredibly helpful and spot on advice! Thanks
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Thank you for stopping by Margot and I apologize for this great delay in responding. My sister had her first baby about a month before your comment and living 4+ hours away means helping her has taken a great deal of time.
I’m glad you enjoyed the post.
Paula
I want to know what you used and how in the 2nd photo. I think you look fabulous.
JoAnn
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Hi JoAnn,
I’m so sorry it’s taken me so long to respond; my sister had a baby about a month before your comment and because she lives about 4 hours away, helping her out has taken a bit of time away from things. It’s my goal this year to show more about my everyday makeup looks. In the second photo I’m wearing ItCosmetics ByeBye Foundation in Light; ItCosmetics ByeBye Pores Blush in Naturally Pretty; and probably Rimmel Kate Moss Lipstick in 08 (Risotto?) as a base. Hope that helps.
Hugs,
Paula
I found this post through my Pinterest For You page, and this is literally the only “tips for mature women” article I’ve ever found that’s actually USEFUL! I stopped wearing makeup over COVID and recently re-started, and your tips line up with my expensive “trial and error” findings. I’m a youthful-looking 53, and I’ve been shocked at how much my old makeup routine/products/colors are now ageing me. It’s so true that less is more. The side swept bang thing is also really useful because I’m guilty of the “before” photo look, so thanks for that tip.
Other tips I use include colouring my grey eyebrow hairs with Just for Men beard and moustache dye (Google the tutorials and only leave on for two mins). I’ve also discovered Seint’s “demi” line of foundation products to be helpful because you just add spot colour correction with these wax-based tints . I know it’s an MLM, and I’m not affiliated…but I’ve found them to be useful tools., especially for brightening the under eye area.
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I’m so glad you stopped by Tania! Isn’t amazing how wearing less makeup makes us look more “youthful”? You have to see it to believe it.
And I’ve used Seint before. You may be surprised to know that it didn’t start as MLM but good for Cara for bringing it into all our homes. Back in the day, Seint’s creator used to do the BEST Makeover Mondays. I learned a lot of good tips from her.
Hugs,
Paula
Less is definitely more. I like the change :)!
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Thanks so much Bonnie.
Hugs,
Paula
This is the first time I have seen your articles. I was pleased to know that I am using many of you recommendations. The big change I made was the contouring and lightened up my lipstick. I look forward to future articles that you send out
Thank you.
Marie Westrope
Ps I just turned 75 years. Hooray
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Hi Marie, I’m so HAPPY you’re here! 👏 I recently had my colors done (analyzed) and they also try to find a perfect red lipstick for you. Every time they put a heavily pigmented one on me I felt I looked harsh. I kept saying, “if you have this shade in a sheer I’d probably like it.” 😂
Hugs,
Paula
I agree except for no bottom eyeliner. Not super black heavy or harsh but definitely not having any is not flattering. Did this a few times and my husbandcthoughtcI was sick or very tired. To each their own
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I have a method where I actually smudge my eyeliner on my bottom lash line. It’s not harsh but still gives some presence to my eyes.
Hugs,
Paula
Hi there from Florida! I’m 70+ and blessed with good skin that I keep tan. Some CC cream, navy eyeliner (for my blue eyes), a little taupe eyebrow pencil and my favorite MAC lipstick are my go-tos. I used to wear heavy eye makeup but don’t miss it at all. Makes getting out the door faster. My nail tech says I need to have my brows tattooed back on as they are almost gone but I resist.
Just found your blog and am enjoying.
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Hi Christine,
Sorry I didn’t reply sooner, but LIFE. I’ll bet your simplified makeup routine is stunning!
I kind of resist on the permanent eyebrows myself. They would make life easier, but I think every trend comes and goes.
Hugs,
Paula
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Hi Christine!
I just came across your comment and don’t know if I replied or somehow missed it. I just wanted to say, you’re an inspiration. I agree with getting out the door faster. I also just don’t want to look like I’m trying so hard, less really can be more.
Hugs,
Paula
You are so pretty!! Excellent tips. I struggle with finding a lip color that gives enough oomph but doesn’t over power.
Love this post! You look beautiful by the way! Like you, I made a few changes to my makeup routine to better suit my 63 yo face. My hair is pure white and very short (big change from my shoulder-length blonde bob of many years but decided to go bold during the pandemic!) and I have fair skin and blue eyes. After moisturizing with Cerave, I use Hourglass Mineral Veil as my primer. Then I use Dr Jart+ BB cream in light/medium because I’m pretty much done with foundation. I use Senna eyelid primer then pat on a little Daniel Sandler liquid blush in Glow instead of eye shadow. My everyday tip for lining my eyes is to use a pencil (usually brown ) and apply it from under the lash line, not from above. I just wiggle it around into the lash line and it makes it look like I have darker, thicker lashes without a noticeable “line”. I don’t line my lower lashes at all. Because I’m lazy, I usually just use an eyelash curler but no mascara unless I’m going out. I have started using BoyBrow in brown (it’s like brow mascara and gives them some definition and helps cover those random grays!)I use a bit of matte bronzer dusted very lightly around my face where sun would hit (don’t forget your ears…looks odd to have them look pale next to the face). I finish with a spritz of aerosol rose water and some lip balm. Takes about 5 minutes total and looks pretty natural and neutral. Thank you for your post!
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I LOVE your simple routine. I too love the Hourglass Veil primer. It’s pricey but worth it! Thanks for stopping by.
Hugs,
Paula
You look much younger with the picture with less makeup. Softer. Great advice
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Thank you Nancy. Lately I’ve even been skipping mascara and eyeliner altogether even though I “need” it to give my eyes a presence on my face. I think it’s just a less is more in makeup philosophy. 😉
Hugs,
Paula
I’m late to the party (found you via Thistlewoodfarms.com) but wanted to ask if you’ve watched any of Dominique Sachse’s Youtube videos. She is a retired newscaster and has videos on makeup/hair/clothes, etc., for the midlife and older woman. While she has a more “glam” look than I do, I’ve found some good nuggets of information there. One of the best things I’ve learned is how to “tightline” my upper lids. Basically it involves donning eye liner super close to your lash line instead of on top of the lash line (like I learned to do back in the 80’s). I have an eye shape similar to yours and I find that it makes my lashes look fuller but not overly made up, which I think is aging to most women. I’m right there with you on makeup application–less is more! The other super helpful thing I’ve found to do it to moisturize, moisturize, moisturize. Dry skin looks old. I like Cere Ve’s night cream and I use it day and night.
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Hi Kris, I’m so glad you’re here! Yes, I’ve seen some of Dominique’s makeup tutorials; and yes she does have a more glam and “professional” look. I try to tight line when I use eyeliner, but this summer I’ve actually gone without eyeliner unless I I’m doing photos or going somewhere fancy, like church. 🤣 I find it let’s me play up my lips or even cheeks more without looking overdone with makeup for summer.
Another person Ive been following that I’ve recently gotten a lot of good makeup tips from is Kate Albert. She’s young but isn’t overdone. Check her out. https://instagram.com/katetalbertmua?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Best to you! 😘
Paula
Great info. Love the comradere .
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Hi Donna! Thanks for being here.
Hugs,
Paula
Brilliant and answers many questions I had.Keeping it real and give good honest suggestions..I knew I needed to change a few things but,the younger set make up artist.,whilst very good,couldn’t quite get it…Thanks,now I have confidence to change some things and included others.Keep it up🌻
71 years
Definitely looking a little older‼️
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You know Eve, with all the images we’re seeing of older women with waxy, fake-looking faces from injectables, Botox, and cosmetic procedures, I think it’s refreshing to see women healthily embracing the natural aging process.
All the best to you,
Paula
I m all over this good makeup application, at 81 years young I never leave home without it, however, 2 weeks ago I broke my right arm. I am not able to do hair or makeup!! Trying like hell with the let hand but no go. Glad I found this website for when I am back. Have been kind of just staying put as I cannot drive. It will be a long recovery but my family has been great.
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Oh no, Madeline that’s terrible. I do hope you recover and get back in the swing of things quickly.
I’ve actually been skipping eye makeup most days this summer but still applying my foundation with my hands and then using a quick cream blush stick for cheeks, top of nose, and lips. It’s almost nothing and you could probably use your left hand to do it because you don’t have to be precise.
But whatever you do, enjoy the downtime. Life will get busy again before you know it.
Hugs,
Paula
I think you look great either way I actually like the original makeup you had on
Good article though
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Thanks Suzanne. As I said, I’m not one to wear a ton of makeup but I think if that person feel beautiful and confident they should go for it. Confidence is the most attractive thing we can wear.
Hugs,
Paula
Hello pretty lady! Thanks for the tips. I am 53 and agree with your findings. I love the after picture even though the before picture is good too- just more dramatic.
One eyelid recommendation I have is to use a medium to dark matte shade of eye shadow and apply lightly just above the crease (on the bone) and do not extend too far inward or outward on the eyelid. This gives you a some definition and sort of diminishes the hood. I love the look and wish I had found this tip years ago! I hope you give it a try and see if it works for you as well.
I’ve found that a wine color or a medium brown works best for me on this. Find a shade that resembles the bare color of your eyelid tone so it looks most natural. I had to try several shades before I found what worked best.
Have a great day!
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That’s a great tip Diann! I think you’re right, finding the right shade is the secret.
Hugs,
Paula
Love this post, but some of the links didn’t work. Also I do not know how to apply makeup so a video or post on each area with the links to the products would be great.
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Thanks for letting me know about the links Deborah. And yes, I’ve been thinking about making some makeup videos
Hugs,
Paula
My hair is white, my once beautiful eyelashes have all but disappeared; I have hooded eyes-mascara is not possible! My hair eye brows are still dark brown/black. I have a small scare in one eyebrow from an accident as a child. In order to camouflage that area in my brow, I use Chanel blonde pencil.?I was surprised that it actually worked…thank you Chanel makeup artist! Any other color on my brows made my look like a clown! My suggestion to naturally graying /natural color need to go lighter, darker on your eye brows look too harsh and extremely fake! My opinion only. Thanks for your awesome tips and suggestions. Aging skin is definitely more of a challenge than I ever imagined! Thanks again, Arlene
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Hi Arlene, I agree, with you – going too dark on the eyebrows looks strange, at least on my face. And yes, aging skin is more of a challenge, but with all the women looking waxy and fake from injectables, botox, and cosmetic procedures, I think it’s refreshing to see more women embracing the aging process, IT’S BEAUTIFUL!
Hugs,
Paula
Thank you for your blog! I feel like you’re describing my face, rosacea, crinkles around smaller eyes, etc. I use concealer, a little blush, and some setting powder. Natural sheer lipstick, and no eye makeup at all. It’s very irritating. I never go anywhere without makeup, but at work the only time anyone notices is when I wear a darker lipstick. Then they say, “oh, you have makeup on!” Lol.
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That’s funny. I once had someone tell me that they wished they could have hair like mine -that they didn’t have to do anything to. I thought, “do you know how long it took me to get this hair to look like I didn’t do anything to it?!?!” LOL Same goes for my face, but instead, they’d definitely notice if I didn’t do anything to it. 😉
Hugs,
Paula
You look amazing. Thank you for putting yourself out there. Love your site.
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Thank you Kimberly!
Hugs to you,
Paula
Hi! I think the after photo of your makeup looks pretty and natural!! The only thing I would add is a transition color on your brow bone, I would suggest a soft “dusty rose” to tie in with the rest of your tones:)
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I’ll have to try a soft dusty rose. I see women using very light tones on their eyes, but even when I buy light shades, they are either apply too dark or are non-existent. If only we could have makeup artists come in home a couple of times a week. 😉
Hugs,
Paula
You look so pretty and your not covering up with makeup. Your true beauty is coming out.
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Thank you so much Sheila! Have a fantastic day.
Hugs,
Paula
You look SO GOOD! Love the hair and your skin honestly could not look any better. It looks simple, healthy and radiant all at the same time. I’m loving the look. I’m 62, have always had freckles, which not have been joined by age spots and a host of other again issues. I’ll keep my eyes on your site to see what you are skin care and make up tips you are sharing for those of us in the over 50 crowd.
Thanks!
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Thank you SO MUCH, Kelly. I’ve worn more makeup, but always come back to a lighter look because I think it’s more youthful for me. I know some women can pull off the brighter, darker lip but it’s just feels weird to me.
Best,
Paula
Berry tones are great as lipstick or any lip product of choice. It’s great for cool skin tones. Warmer skin tones can try a coral/tomato lip product .
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Thanks Amy. Since this post I’ve had my colors done and as part of it discovered “my red”. 😉 I still struggle going too deep or intense as I like a softer look; it looks more youthful to me. 😀
Hugs,
Paula
Can you suggest a substitute for foundation for aging skins? Something that evens out irregular skin tones and textures but feels light and is quick to put on. Thanks so much!
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I don’t tend to try a ton of foundations Maryum, I stick with what I know works. But, I would suggest trying a foundation with a serum base. I’ve tried this one and if you find the right color it looks and feels light and about as skin-like as I’ve experienced.
https://rstyle.me/cz-n/f86z9jcdmi7
If your only looking for a tinted moisturizer with SPF , this is my absolute FAVORITE! I wear it under my makeup all the time.
https://rstyle.me/cz-n/f864hecdmi7
Personally I use this one from ITCosmetics in the color “light”. A little goes a long way. :
https://rstyle.me/cz-n/f862dmcdmi7
And I’ve recently discovered if I mix it with this moisturizing glow serum, it gives the nicest finish:
https://rstyle.me/cz-n/g46575cdmi7
Let me know if you try any of these suggestions to see if they help. Good luck.
Paula
Thank you so much for sharing!so many women use way too much eye liner and red lip stick! Nooo!
Oh you are a relief! Not only a very beautiful lady, but a great sense of humour. I have struggled to let go of my 80s make up , and may take your lead and book in with a make up artist to help. My hooded eyes are my bug bear😢I really miss having brighter eyes, but I feel they are still my best feature when I get it right. Evening make up is a real problem , how to look sexy and not like a drag queen ( no offence to drag queens, who are fab, but not a good look with my features) . I want to look like I have made an effort, and feel my best.
Thank you for the article, you look so lovely.
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You’re welcome, Tania. It’s a fine line between just right and over done when you get to be above a certain age. But I’d say we’re ahead of the curve is we realize this. 😉
Hugs,
Paula
What is the lovely pink lipstick you are wearing in the last photo?
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Oh my goodness Cindy, I’m a terrible beauty blogger because I honestly forget. But it was likely this one, it’s one of the best pink nudes I know of and super affordable. Or sometimes, I like to use a lip liner as lipstick, blot it out a bit then use a lip balm on top. I think it gives the lips a more natural look so it very well could have been this lip liner in color, Love Story – another great nude pink.
I don’t think you can go wrong with either.
Best,
Paula
I hav a “ lazy “ eye. If I do liner, it’s pronounced. Help! I’m 53, have dark circles and puffy inner under eye and large, green, hooded eyes.
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I too have one eye that droops more than the other and it drops into a fluid filled cyst. I’ve been choosing to not wear eyeliner more and more recently. If I do, I kind of just smudge in right in the lash line to create the appearance of thicker lashes. If your eye drops too dramatically, try stopping the liner where it drops the most or don’t follow the lash-line from that point on. Instead, draw the line straight out from that point … but not too long.
In the new year, I have plan to make more makeup video tutorials so I’ll try to address this better in a video.
Hugs,
Paula
I did not see if you mentioned your teeth. They are beautifully white. How do you do it?
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Thank you so much Joni. I don’t drink coffee and only have hot tea occasionally. Other drinks I sip through a straw. I brush twice a day using Colgate Optic White and every few years I might use some whitening strips like Crest and I’ve also used a non-toxic option from a brand called Luminex. You can find those on websites like Target and Amazon.
Hope that helps!
Hugs,
Paula
Loved your article. I agree 100 percent with your comments. Going grey as we speak!
Thank you. Lisa
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Good for you Lisa! I hope you love your gray hair as much as I love mine. 💓
Hugs,
Paula
Loved your Brow Video for Mature Dummies…😍
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Thanks Donna. I’m a klutz when it comes to eye makeup, so anything that makes it easier is a win for me.
Hugs,
Paula
I loved your ideas. It’s so hard to ease up on liner. I will try your ideas tomorrow morning. Less really is better. Thank you
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I get it Linda! It may take some trial and error to find a happy medium but keep playing with it and give the new looks time to get used to. 😘
Hugs,
Paula
I still like your eye makeup! Lips to dark!
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Thanks Melissa. I’m still working on perfecting a eye look I’m happy with.
Best to you!
Paula
I think the left picture with all the makeup makes her look much heavier. Her cheeks & face look fat. I like her bangs brushed to the left on the right picture. She looks slimmer & fresh & natural on the right.
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Thank you Cheryl! Of course, I laid it on pretty thick in the photo on the left and went what I cal “minimal everyday” on the right. But I definitely feel my best with less makeup. That’s really what any of us should go for, is to feel our most confident.
Have an amazing day!
Hugs,
Paula
I am definitely making some of these mistakes lol, but I think you look great with the changes you have made and thanks for the product tips , going to try lightening things up a bit!
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Hi Connie, thanks for the comments. Try lightening up and give it a little time to get the right balance for you. But if in the end you feel best in more, than go for it because CONFIDENCE is the most attractive and youthful thing we can wear. 😘
Hugs & happy practicing!
Paula
Dear Paula,
I absolutely love the after photo. You are beautiful. I am 66 and can’t seem to find anything that works for my eyes, lips and skin due to aging. Would you be able to provide the exact make up brands and colors that you used for the fresh look in you after photo?
Thank you so much!
Noni
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Hi Noni!
Yes, I will. I am working on a couple of posts right now for an everyday makeup look and prepping skin to receive it well.
Keep an eye out.
Hugs,
Paula
Both are very pretty!!
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You’re very sweet Virginia. Thanks for stopping by the blog.
Best,
Paula
You look fabulous!!! Spot on!
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Thank you Luann! 😘
Hi Paula. This is great. I love the after look. I too have rosacea and have found Dr Sam Buntings range really helpful as well as Sali Hughes vit c serum. I look up all the ingredients on incidecoder.com I think I am on the right lines with less is more make up now although I do use an eyebrow pencil in a dark grey, eyebrow mascara ( a tiny bit) and a gel as they can be unruly. Eyes are now natural but with a good amount of mascara. And having been a die hard Estee Lauder Doublewear foundation fan all my adult life recently I save that for nights out and the rest of the time its the body shop. The colour is spot on for me so I don’t need to go down my neck and it has good things in it and is more dewy. I also use lisa Eldridge foundation for going out. I have given up on everything else and think I look much better. I am 57. Your hair is great too and I might take your pic to my hairdresser. Thank you.
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Thank you for the compliments and the product recommendations, Lisa, I haven’t heard of them.
Have an amazing week!
Paula
Paula you look great. I have long been a lover of MAC products. I use a very light foundation, and powder. I worry about my eye makeup being too much for my age (I’m 74), but I have always considered my eyes to be my best feature, so want to play them up. I use neutral shadows, and soft greens and brown liners. I go heavy on the mascara as that’s what makes my eyes pop. Also, I have used powdered shadow on my eyebrows for years. Works pretty good. As for lips, I have used a brown liquid eyeliner pen to line them for years, and then fill in with earthy lip colors . Lip pencils tend to run, and make too thick of a line. Without the lip liner, my lips just run into my face. No definition. Sometimes, even a little light line with chapstick works. My husband always wants me to wear red lipstick, and I tell him that it would not make me look like a lady. I periodically will go to the makeup counter and ask if my makeup needs correcting. I will also ask my hairdresser from time to time, though I’m not sureI can totally trust her to be objective. I’m often told I look much younger than my age, and who doesn’t love hearing that? So maybe I’m doing ok.
Would love to see a picture. Sounds like you have had lots of practice and must be doing sobering right. Paula did a great job sharing her tips and looks great
Way too much eye makeup.
I love the after pic of the lighter lipstick. What color and brand is it?
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Hi Lori, I’m a terrible blogger because I don’t exactly remember which lipstick it was but, I believe it was an oldie but goodie by *Rimmel, the Kate Collection in this pretty pink nude. It’s a great shade for every day.
Best,
Paula
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