Hello, I’m so glad you’re here!  What you’ve come to or stumbled on is a lifestyle blog by me, Paula, a 50 something, not skinny girl who loves to laugh, sing, decorate and dress cute (and skinny).  Get your bladder leakage pads ready because I hope you’ll be inspired to laugh, through little snippets from my wacky mind and average life. I’d love for you to stick around and join me on my journey to laugh at every roll and wrinkle, decorate  the mess of reality, dress to flatter every dimple and finally sing for joy that we are okay with being okay with how and who we are right now.


Kimono / Summer Style / Over 50 Fashion

kimono style

Kimono-ver and See My Summer Uniform + Ageless Style Link Up This month’s Ageless Style…

Lane Bryant Fashion / Curvy Fashion / Plus Sized Fashion / Over 50 Fashion

Easter Dresses & The Slobbing of America

Here Comes Peter Cottontail Easter is just around the corner. Easter brings to mind dying…

Makeup for Rosacea / Rosacea

how I cover rosacea without looking made-up

I have rosacea Erythematotelangiectatic rosacea to be specific. I can’t pronounce it but I know…

Body Positvity / Body Confidence / Body Image Movement

learning body positivity from a dog

  My body positivity journey started by simply comparing myself to a dog! By now…

breast cancer journey / breast cancer survivor

My Mom, Breast Cancer Warrior

What better way to honor women on National Women’s Day than to talk about our…

The Fierce 50 Beth Briggs Illustration /

the fierce 50 campaign-not your mama’s 50

  not your mama’s 50 A very special group of women are coming together today,…